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How to Choose: Pilates vs. Yoga

Pilates and yoga are often thrown into the same category of mind-body fitness.  New students are understandably confused as to the similarities and differences between each one.  Add to that the different styles of pilates and yoga and it becomes even more difficult to differentiate between the two.

Some students will ask me which one they should do, as if they have to choose one or the other. Obviously I have my preferences but I also believe that you should choose whatever motivates you and stick with it. For some people it's the meditative aspect of yoga, for some it's the core challenge of pilates and for others it's both. 

I do think it's good to be informed about your options so hopefully this will help shed some light on the differences between pilates and yoga:

Pilates vs. Yoga #1:  Development

Yoga originated 5000 years ago in India and has since branched off into several different styles.  Yoga was originally intended as a supplement to meditation, with breath and spiritual intent taking precedence over the physical poses.  The poses were meant to help train the body to hold still for long periods of deep meditation.

Pilates originated in the early 20th century and was invented by a German boxer, skier and athlete named Joseph Pilates.  Pilates worked in a hospital and invented his system as a conditioning program for recovering soldiers.  Pilates later brought the practice from Germany to the United States.  He opened his first studio in New York City, in the same building as New York City Ballet's rehearsal studios.  Thus began a long association between pilates and female dancers, even though Pilates was invented by a male boxer who developed his exercises for male soldiers.

Pilates vs. Yoga #2:  Interpretation of Mind/Body

 

​A meditative yoga class moment (via boddhisatva.com)

​A meditative yoga class moment (via boddhisatva.com)

Yoga focuses on mind-body connection as a way to find spirituality.  Pilates teaches the connection between mind and body in order to facilitate more efficient movement.  Pilates does not incorporate a spiritual element to the workouts but instead focuses on physical conditioning, which was the original intent of the exercises.

Pilates vs. Yoga #3:  Teaching Method

Most yoga classes are taught in group format, on mats with small props like blocks, straps and blankets.  These small props allow students to modify poses so that each person can do the form that is accessible to them.  Not every yoga teacher is trained in modifications though as I've been to some that have insisted that I only needed to put mind over matter in order to achieve positions that I knew were harmful to my existing dance injuries.  If you have trouble with the exercise, teachers may ask you to just focus on the breathing or just rest in child's pose.

Joseph Pilates in his 8th Ave studio

Joseph Pilates in his 8th Ave studio

Pilates in New York is also taught in group format on mats or in private lessons with large equipment.  City pilates fans seem to prefer their private equipment sessions and I admit I see better results for clients that start off on the machines and build a strong foundation before moving to mat class.  It's just too easy to cheat - intentionally or not - in group class and since so much of pilates is all about the technique, you just don't see the same results as you do when you have an instructor breathing over you (nicely).  Pilates' focus is on the movement so even if you lose the breathing, we will ask you to just keep trying the movement until eventually it goes into your muscle memory.

Pilates vs. Yoga #4:  The Benefits

Both yoga and pilates will strengthen and lengthen your body.  Because yoga is posture based, there is more focus on achieving flexibility so that you can hold those shapes.  Pilates is movement based so there is more focus on achieving strength so that you can flow through each movement with the proper form and muscular firing patterns.

Core strength is a central tenet of pilates.  Much of what you do, especially as a beginner, is to find and strengthen your deep core muscles and support movement of the spine in all directions.  While you certainly may build core strength in yoga, it is only a piece of your yoga experience rather than the focus.

Pilates vs. Yoga #5: Role of Breathing

Because yoga was intended to support a spiritual practice, the breathing is of tantamount importance to help students focus and achieve a certain spiritual state for meditation.  Breath is often taken in deeply, allowing the belly to rise and fall.  There are different breathing patterns for different intentions.

Pilates is first and foremost a physical conditioning practice.  Breath is important but only because it is a tool to help facilitate movement.  In order to keep the abs pulled in throughout the exercises, students inhale through the nose, expanding the sides of the ribs, and exhale through the mouth, getting a little more contraction in the abs as they do so.

So which should I choose:  yoga or pilates?

Both yoga and pilates can produce profound strength and flexibility in the body.  The best way to choose is to try each one.  Yoga is still more common than pilates so whether you are in an urban or less-populated area it should be easy to find a group class to join.  If you are in a large city, you may also have access to pilates studios that can offer private pilates sessions with a knowledgeable instructor.

If your main objective is to relax, de-stress, and plug into your spiritual side, you might prefer yoga.  If you want to feel energized and focus on the physical conditioning of your core and back minus the spiritual aspect, then you'll love pilates.  If you discover that you love both, do both and let them complement one another!

 

4 Simple Mantras for Happy Relationships Now

Finding something to read or watch while doing cardio at the gym is always an interesting challenge. You need something engrossing enough that 30 minutes on an elliptical will fly by yet doesn't require so much concentration that you lose your focus, lose speed or worse, fly off the machine. (I'm not saying it happened to me, I'm just saying it's easier to fall off a treadmill than one would think!)

I recently took a hoop dance workshop where my teacher kept referring to Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh. I finally looked up this video because I felt embarrassingly ignorant of this man who was nominated by Martin Luther King, Jr. for the Nobel Peace Prize.

One of the most touching parts of the interview are when Thich Nhat Hanh gives four simple mantras to practice for happy relationships. Scroll down to see the video.

 I've listed the mantras here so you can paste them somewhere and practice them.

Mantra #1: Darling, I am here.

Thicht Nhat Hanh says simply, "How can you love when you are not there?"

With this mantra you offer your beloved your presence - your true presence delivered with authentic connection. You are not distracted with work or projects or the outside world but are just there to listen or be with the beloved with focused attention. 

Mantra #2: Darling, you are there (and I am so happy that you are truly there).

With this mantra you recognize the presence of your beloved as something very precious. Thicht Nhat Hanh suggests "embrace your loved one with mindfulness and she will bloom like a flower." Watching Thicht Nhat Hanh describe this mantra set me to tears. How many of us are there waiting to be seen by those who love us, to be recognized for the ordinary noble deeds we conduct every day out of love? How many of us are so consumed with building our careers that we overlook the people we aim to support? It is deeply painful not to be seen. As Thicht Nhat Hanh says "to be loved is to be recognized as existing."

Mantra #3: Darling, I know you suffer (am I am here for you).

This mantra you practice when your beloved is hurting. Before you offer aid, first offer your presence and you may bring relief just by being present.

Mantra #4: Darling, I suffer. (I am trying my best to practice. Please help me.) 

This fourth mantra can be a toughie. 

Thich Nhat Hanh suggests this mantra to overcome hurt when the hurt has been caused by your beloved.  He says to practice this mantra when you would rather be alone or rather retaliate and hurt your loved one.

You People are Such Good Dancers

When you grow up in the San Francisco Bay Area, you get used to a sort of charmed, politically correct existence. No one ever asks for a fork in a Chinese  restaurant. We say Latino and not "Hispanic." Women and men open doors for each other with equal ease. What's called "politically correct" in other parts of the country is called "Tuesday" in the Bay Area. 

This video made me homesick: